How about a tie?

I'm trying to convince my t-shirt and cargo wearing boyfriend that it is Ok.... to every once in awhile step out of his wardrobe of tshirts and cargo pants/shorts and opt for the occasional polo, button down shirt, perhaps even a long tie . . . You'd think I'd asked him to perfrom some miserable task. He said we'd go to the mall. And I was overjoyed he agreed without me having to ask twice. But after a nice day of hanging out with his friends on the way home/ slash towards the mall he asked why he needed them. I told him I occasionally wanted to go places (on dates) where it'd be nice if a guy dressed up a teeny bit more then he does. "Well what are we getting" I told him three dress shirts and this Tshirt I'd seen that I thought I'd get him cause it was funny and SOMETHING I know HE'D WEAR for being so nice and going with me. But then he said he wouldn't want to go on any of those dates and I shouldn't try and change him. I'm not in all honesty. I never thought I wan in any way regardless of what people might have thought when we started dating. And as far as that goes I don't think you're changing who you are if you go on one or a few dates with your signicant other to places / to do activites they choose. But I don't want to push the matter regardless if he realizes it though he did say ok to atleast two dates where he'll need at least a button down short sleeve shirt. . . The horror. I know. But as I'm thinking about it there are lots of things that I used to do date wise I wouldn't have really chose - - But lately I haven't been doing it as much - Because he hasn't asked. He makes those things, things he does with the guys now. Hmm. Oh well.

So this weekend I had a date day Sunday and hanged out with his friends and basically just hung out around the house. So you'd say I've had a relaxing weekend. But I'm really tired today. And I have so much to do around the house. Not with laundry (yay!) but I have some projects I want to get done. Mostly cleaning out my closet, working out, and reorganizing my kitchen cabinets, and scanning some pictures I need to return to my Aunt. I just want to take a nap though? That's weird I never take naps. But we'll see how the evening plays out.