I had another amazing date with bean. Actually it was a busy day I went and got Donna at 10 we had a girls day.... lunch, "window shopping", and trying to find an orange sweater dress because that's her favorite color. I got C a little halloween costume for next year. A little ghost onsie, hat, and booties, Then Bahnson called to tell me that Aunt Nancy was waiting at Chilis for me. She tried to pull a Claire Belle on me but I told her I had a date with Bean and Joyce later. So instead we ate lunch talked about C, his/her daddy, and other things. And then I was off to my date with Bean. I had been planning this since before Halloween so I was excited to finally see him!!! He had to show me his Monkey costume how big his belly was in it - Joyce commented his little bootie was big too. lol. Then he had to show me the "bumble bee" costume. That's what he was last year. It still fit this year cause it was big last year. So he paraded around in both. We counted money, played with trucks, and then we made the cookies. Pumpkin shapped Halloween ones. I got a little glitter gel tube that he could do by himself and he decorated them with that and orange and black sprinkles. He was so cute he tried to draw the little faces. Then he tried just to eat the gel... Kid's got the family sweet tooth. Joyce told him he couldn't have a cookie till he finished dinner.
Around dinner time I told him I didn't think I could pick him up anymore cause it hurt the baby. He looked at me like I was crazy. I had went the day I got my first ultrasounds to show Bahnson and Joyce because well other people didn't seem interested and I was wanting to get excited. Bahnson told him that was his little cousin and it was in my belly. He looked at me and said no a baby's not in there. Negy can't be there. So I assumed he still remembered. But no. I said yeah it's in there. I showed my belly to him (took off my jacket). A big feat because well besides people seeing it in pictures I don't go around showing it to people. I can litterally count on one hand the people I've allowed to get close enough to me and some of them went ahead and rubbed it regardless of my wth are you doing. He noticed right away that Aunt Nancy did have a belly and the rest of the night that's all he talked about. He said he thought it was a baby girl. I said like Kylie and he said no she's a big boy now. lol. But he did say she was girl and he was boy. So I think he just mis spoke. :) He kept asking about it and told me it was going to come out there and pointed in the right direction. I was impressed. Although for awhile I kept thinking he was asking me if we could eat the baby and when I said no we can't eat the baby he said no. Did you swallow the baby? "Oh.. yeah, kinda." He ran to the fridge and asked if the baby wanted tea, milk, yogart, chocolate, I told him no but when it came out he could give it milk. Sometimes he'd be loud and we'd ask what he was doing and he said he was waking the baby up so it could get out. But then when bahnson started to talk he'd say "shh the baby is sleeping" lol. He also had to go get his little massager and give the baby a massage even though the massage went all around from my boobs to C. After dinner which he didn't eat he played and snuggled with mommy and daddy and then I read him his books for bed time. When I went in there he asked me if I was sleeping there with him. This kinda threw me he doesn't like anyone even on his bed. I told him no. "Oh you're sleeping downstairs." "No." I told him I was going home to Tucker and Abby and Petey. He got all upset you're having the baby come out at your house! Without Negy! Oh my. I told him nope he's still got to get strong. He said "and have muscles" and flexed his little arms. It was funny. I told him three books and after the 2nd one I said just one more. He picked probably the longest one he had. How the Grinch stole Christmas. lol Little procrastinator. I told him to give me a goodbye hug and we started talking about the baby. I told him he had a while to wait. Not until after Christmas. Thankfully that changed the subject to how he was going to have a BIG TREE. He showed me how big as he jumped up and reached as far as he could. I thought about this and realized I should have told him after Kylie's birthday and before mine. Otherwise as soon as that tree comes he'll be thinking I'm having the baby out now. I asked him if he had fun making cookies with me and he said yes he wanted one. I reminded him tomorrow cause he never finished dinner. Well then he decided he would finish eating. I had to give him one more hug and this time I picked him up he kept asking if he was hurting the baby. No he was so cute and protective. Then I left him eating spaghetti and him telling my belly bye.
The next few days haven't been as great I guess I'm getting overwhelmed about stuff. Something set me off in the morning and then in the afternoon I went to eat dinner with Sheena and we went to the mall she was looking for a Christmas ornament for her little cousin and I was looking around to see if they had a little preggo one well they had 5 but they all came with preggo mommy and a daddy and two of those had a little kid on the dad's leg . There was one without a male but it was bear and well I thought it was ugly. Blah. Little things rub me the wrong way. lol. I just try and stay positive!
Tomorrow is a new day and a friend offered to buy me and C lunch. So I'm sure it'll be a great day.
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